Boundaries

Thank you for opening this and reading, this will contain my triggers, oc boundaries, dni criteria and blacklist. There will be of course triggering content, so read these lists at your own risk.

Oc boundaries

TLDR please don't be weird abt them

  • Can I draw your ocs? Yes!

  • Can we make aus with our ocs? Yes, that sounds really fun! I love making aus!!

  • Can we roleplay together? Yes!

  • Can I use your ocs to roleplay? No, I only want me to be the one to use my ocs in rps unless we are co-owning!

  • Can I steal your ocs? Nope

  • Can I be inspired by you designs/colors? Yes! Just don't make a carbon copy

  • Can we ship ocs? Sorry, I only ship my ocs with close friends!

  • Can I simp over your ocs? Also sorry, but I'm only comfortable with only close friends doing that since I know they won't sexualize them.

  • So no sexualizing your ocs in any way? Yep!!

  • No drawing nsfw or suggestive art of them? Yep!!

  • Only drawing canon/approved au ships? Yep!!

  • Can I kin your ocs? No, only comfortable with close friends doing that.

  • Can our ocs be physically affectionate in roleplays? Not unless close friends.

  • SONA BOUNDARIES:

  • Can I give your sonas pet names? No.

  • How about I point out or make fun of your sona Elizabeth's weight? Absolutely not

  • How about I have Axel get touched (hugs, pokes, any touch) without asking you first? No. I've projected my phobia/difficulties with touch onto him.

  • How about I objectify Hazel or label her as some 'traditional wife' or 'damsel in distress'? Nope

  • Hey we should ship Hazel or Axel with other characters? How about no, I want them shipped together and only with each other.

  • On that note please do not think Axel and Elizabeth are shipped together they are the SAME. PERSON. A mind that was split into two bodies. It would be weird to ship them.

  • Wouldn't it be cute if we shipped Orchid with someone--NO.

  • Why not? I see art of her with someone else, is that a ship--don't treat that as a ship it's vent art about my ex. Orchid will never be shipped at all.

Triggers

I don't have many triggers, so this will be brief, at least for now. I do not mind talking about or discussing other commonly triggering topics as long as they aren't on this list, this list is subject to change if I discover that I have more triggers than just this.

  • NSFW is one of my biggest triggers, so please do not bring up suggestive topics, or jokes, etc around me as I will most likely have a bad reaction to it.

  • Fetishes. Same reason as above I don't wanna hear about that stuff or see it, keep it to yourself please.

  • Things touching eyes/descriptions of things touching eyes/eye gore. I don't know why but this is an extreme trigger for me, so please don't make any jokes regarding this or show me any pictures of anything like this because I find it extremely discomforting.

  • Animal cruelty or animal death, while I do not mind talking about it I would greatly appreciate a trigger warning beforehand, and PLEASE censor any images you might send involving this so I know what I'm clicking on before I see it so I don't have a bad reaction.

Dni Criteria

Most of this should be self-explanatory or obvious already.

  • Dni if you are or support: Proships, Maps (the 'nicer' word for p*dos) zoos, nazis etc. Etc means all of the other typically problematic behaviors that I can't think of off the top of my head because I think I'm forgetting smth similar to these but yeah dni.

  • If you support, draw, or engage with feral nsfw in any way.

  • If you're an only NSFW page or if you are a fetish account, don't interact with me. This also includes if you have uncensored NSFW as well.

  • Stalking/doxxing/harassment. This goes in the 'obvious' category but I will say it anyway, dni if you like stalking people and all that nonsense. Big yikes.

  • If you support any form of discrimination such as racism, religious descrimination, or homophobia, please do not interact. Just because I'm religious doesn't mean I support harassment or negative behaviors towards anyone especially from members of my own religion since that goes against what we're supposed to believe in. There's no reason to attack, demean, belittle, or treat people as inhuman, because do you really think that's going to result in any positive outcome? Treat people as you wish to be treated.

  • Dni if you harass, attack, belittle, etc anyone just because they have differing opinions than you. If we were all just some hivemind with the exact same thoughts and opinions, how would we be able to grow and change? Differing opinions opens up paths for healthy debate as well as enough difference for us to learn from each other and grow. I don't really care if you have differing opinions from me as long as it's not support for the problematic behaviors listed above. There is often a lot of gray area involved in certain topics which I have realized previously but never really said until now, so I don't really care much as long as you're still a decent human being. We're all just trying our best out here.

  • Also dni if you just loooove to say slurs because I don't really like slurs I don't vibe with that even if you can reclaim the slurs we shouldn't be normalizing them being said imo so. Yeah. Just my personal opinion though, if you can reclaim it then ig you can say it but I don't want to be a part of that.

Blacklist

This is my blacklist. If you are on this list please do not interact with me in any way shape or form. If you are close friends with these people I am not very comfortable with interacting either.Don't want to get on this list? Be a decent respectful person.I only add people on my blacklist if: they have hurt me in some way, they have exhibited harmful, malicious, or at times even disgusting behaviors towards either myself or those close to me, and finally if I see them supporting the above dni criteria. If they are on this list for another reason, it will be explained.

Harass or attack anyone on this list and you'll be added to it next. I never support harassment, just don't do that.

  • Keegan/Xxg4lactic_vampxX: This person has hurt people I'm close to, and they are also dating a 12 y/o as a 19 y/o, continuing to date this person even after discovering their real age and after being told how wrong their behavior is. That's just...really disgusting.

  • Flicker: If you heavily support this person, please don't interact with me. I had a bad experience with this person that has left me with a bad taste in my mouth regarding them.

  • Sugarpawz: This person has conducted themselves extremely maliciously and poorly with a close friend of mine, including the following behaviors: stalking, doxxing, harassment, false accusations, and overall abusive behavior. No desire to associate with them or anyone else close to them.

  • Ur mother: she refused to give me all of the delicious home-cooked food she baked, so she goes on the dni list too. I'm really hungry.

But wait!! I'm not on this list and I'm still blocked! Why?If you are blocked but not on this list, you were most likely blocked for something I don't think is worth putting your name on the blacklist for, but I still want you to stay very far away from me. It was most likely either slur usage or NSFW, which are both things that I don't think are really worth blacklisting over because it would make this list much longer, and there's no real point to it in my opinion unless it's something problematic like feral nsfw. Plus, I often block random accounts that I see have nsfw on their accounts just for my mental health or not wishing to interact with them, so yeah. If you think this applies to you then sorry. This also counts if you are closely associated with users who have done either, just for my own peace of mind.

If you don't think this fits you, then you fit in the category of people who have acted towards my friends in such a vile manner that you entirely disgust me. You have hurt them in such a personal way that I do not feel it is right to list your names, especially without permission, so I won't but I hope you know who you are. Multiple people fit into this category unfortunately, I hope the actions you took to hurt my friends so deeply haunt you as you will never really escape what you have done. The only thing I can hope is that you cease your predatory behavior and don't do it to someone else, but sadly you probably will. Just know that proof of what you have done still exists, and I hope it your actions hang over your head and prevent you from sleeping soundly at night.

Thank you so much for reading this! I immensely appreciate it since I have struggled with setting proper boundaries for a very long time, so the thought of someone reading through all this really helps my peace of mind! Thank you!!